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Ask Amy: I took the online advice to dump my boyfriend, and here’s what happened then

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

Dear Readers: Like you, I’m often curious about what happens to the advice I offer once it leaves my desk, and so I’ve asked readers to send in updates. Publishing them reminds me that we have been through a lot over these past decades.To refresh all of our memories, I’m running the original Q&A, followed by the update.Dear Amy: I’m in my mid-20s. My boyfriend is in his late 20s. We’ve been seeing each other for 10 months, and some things he does bother me.He’s not very sensitive or romantic. I’ve told him multiple times that I want him to be more romantic, but he says it’s just not how he is.He rarely initiates sex, because he says he likes when I do it, even though I say that it’s hard for me to feel sexy when he doesn’t show me first that he finds me sexy.He is really big on spending weekends with his friends (they share hobbies that I don’t share). He’ll usually be gone all day with them. Sometimes he’ll also spend ...

Harriette Cole: I’ve started to worry about my girlfriend’s ethics

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a few months now, and I have noticed that she has a habit of gossiping about her own friends to her other friends. This behavior has been bothering me and makes me feel uneasy.Related ArticlesAdvice | Harriette Cole: She drinks to have fun, and then the rest of us can’t Advice | Harriette Cole: How do I tell her there’s no way she could wear those clothes? Advice | Harriette Cole: My boyfriend and I fought about his plan to taunt my ex Advice | Harriette Cole: He refused to pull over, and her new car got damaged Advice | Harriette Cole: My former teacher tells stories about me that aren’t true I cannot help but feel that it is wrong and disrespectful to her friends. I understand that gossip is common, but I believe that sharing information about others without their consent is not ethical. I am worried that if she can ...

A Year After Dobbs, the Anti-Abortion Right Is Grilling Doctors on Tattoos, Tweets, and Too-Strong Beliefs

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

Dr. Caitlin Bernard in Indianapolis on Sept. 28, 2022.Photo: Kaiti Sullivan for The Washington Post via Getty ImagesSome three hours into the 14-hour inquisition of Dr. Caitlin Bernard before the Indiana physician’s licensing board, the assistant attorney general asked her an odd question: “Do you have a tattoo of a coat hanger that says, ‘Trust women,’ on your body?”It was hard to tell which part offended him more: the coat hanger or “trust women.”Bernard’s attorney objected to the question as irrelevant. And legally speaking, it was. For the record, Bernard does have such a tattoo, on her left foot, inked years ago to remind her of life in the bad old days. She is not ashamed of it.But the question was certainly not an opening for the doctor to express pride in her profession and her advocacy of reproductive health care. It was not meant to seek information. Nor was the query a misstep. The interrogator, Cory Voight, was on a mission to prove this respected OB-GYN unf...

Russian mercenary leader Prigozhin denies Putin’s allegation of betrayal and calls his fighters patriots

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

MOSCOW (AP) — Russian mercenary leader Prigozhin denies Putin’s allegation of betrayal and calls his fighters patriots.Source

Unsettled Weekend with Clouds and Storms

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

This final weekend of June will feature some gloom this time around in South Florida with more clouds filling our skies along with showers and storms at times. This weekend will not be a washout but you will have to deal with rain at times.Expect some sunshine this Saturday, especially early in the day with isolated showers in the morning, then some scattered storms this afternoon with the greatest chance across our inland areas. By the evening, I think that will feature our highest rain chance at a 60% chance with rain and thunderstorms possible across the east coast metro. Highs will be warm into the low 90s once again.Overnight should feature generally quiet weather with only the chance for some spotty showers. Otherwise it will be generally cloudy with lows in the upper 70s to low 80s.Sunday will be another unsettled day with mostly cloudy skies and scattered storms likely. The timing for these storms right now appears to be during the middle of the day Sunday but of course that...

Live blog: Putin warns of civil war amid Russia mutiny

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

Russian President Vladimir Putin on Saturday raised the specter of civil war after embittered warlord Yevgeny Prigozhin seized control of key parts of the south of the country. Prigozhin, who has long lambasted Russia’s top brass for their handling of the war in Ukarine, has seized the large strategic city of Rostov-on-Don, a crucial command center for the Kremlin’s war in Ukraine, some 1,000 kilometers south of Moscow. His Wagner Group mercenary forces also appear to have a foothold around Voronezh, about 500 kilometers from the capital. Putin has condemned the insurrection as “treason” and Chechen warlord Ramzan Kadyrov has said his fighters have already been dispatched to take the battle to Wagner — raising the prospect of imminent civil conflict inside Russia. Britain’s Ministry of Defense has called Prigozhin’s uprising “the most significant challenge to the Russian state in recent times.” Follow the latest developments here on POLITICO’s live blog:

Meta agrees to July ‘stress test’ on new EU content rules

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

Meta has agreed to a July “stress test” on new EU content rules, Internal Market Commissioner Thierry Breton said late Friday after meeting with Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg in California.The test is a mock exercise on how the firm would comply with the EU  Digital Services Act‘s requirements on content moderation, which come into force in August. Breton said in a tweet that he had a “Productive discussion” with Zuckerberg in Menlo Park. “Preparedness on its way with 1,000 Meta employees working on” the DSA, he added. The DSA’s content provisions, which start applying in late August, will oblige major tech platforms to combat online hate speech, illegal content and disinformation.On Thursday, Breton met with Elon Musk and Twitter’s new Chief Executive Officer Linda Yaccarino about a similar “stress test” on that platform’s services. Breton also met with Sam Altman, CEO of ChatGPT’s OpenAI, and Jensen Huang, who runs microchips designe...

Lucas: Nobody orders two steaks anymore

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

The story, one of many, comes back to me now upon the death of former House Speaker David M. Bartley, 88, last week. He was buried Tuesday.We are at Anthony’s Pier 4, the once famous and iconic Boston Harbor restaurant, waiting to order dinner one night in 1974.After meeting him at his State House office on a story I was working on, he suggested we go to Anthony’s.Anthony Athanas, the proprietor, who loved to fuss over politicians and celebrities, made sure that Bartley got a choice sea view table, even though I, elbowed aside, was picking up the tab — or at least my newspaper was.Bartley, from working-class Holyoke, had earlier at the astonishing age of 33 become the youngest state representative elected Speaker of the House of Representatives in 1969. He served until 1975.He was a valuable source for a lot of reporters, myself included. He was also the most effective leader of the House to come along in a long time.Bartley was a pragmatic Democrat who could work with Republicans t...

Battenfeld: Democratic slime machine now targets Robert F. Kennedy Jr.

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

The Soviet-style Democratic Party slime machine has moved on from Donald Trump and chosen its newest target: a member of the prominent Kennedy family who has emerged as a threat to Joe Biden.The media of course is playing a willing part in the attacks, portraying Robert F. Kennedy Jr. as the “conservative’s favorite Democrat” and a dangerous, paranoid, anti-vaccine wingnut. Canceled.“Democrats Shouldn’t Ignore RFK Jr. They Should Expose Him,” proclaims New York Magazine.“Pro-RFK Jr. Super PAC Has Deep Ties to Marjorie Taylor Greene, George Santos,” blares a Rolling Stone article.“He should be regarded as a pest doing the bidding of the opposing party,” New York Magazine said.Kennedy doesn’t stand much of a chance of being elected president, so why have the Biden campaign and media launched these vicious, coordinated attacks?It’s because Kennedy, son of the slain Sen. Robert F. Kennedy, is topping 20% in the polls. That’s enough in Biden’s view to trigger the kind of slime the old So...

Beijing sizzles under worst heat wave and authorities ask people to stay indoors

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:54 GMT

TAIPEI, Taiwan (AP) — Beijing and parts of northern China are experiencing record temperatures, with authorities urging people to limit their time outdoors.The Nanjiao observatory in southern Beijing on Saturday for the first time recorded temperatures above 40 degrees Celsius (104 degrees Fahrenheit) for a third consecutive day, according to the China Meteorological Administration. In nearby Hebei province and the port city of Tianjin, temperatures have also soared above 40 C over the past few days, prompting authorities to issue “red” alerts for extreme weather. In China’s four-tier weather alert system, the red indicates the most severe conditions.On Thursday, Beijing experienced its second-hottest day on record – with temperatures soaring to 41.1 C (106 F). It was also the highest temperature ever recorded in China’s capital during the month of June.Beijing’s all-time high of 41.9 C (107 F), since modern records began, occurred on July 24, 1999.Chinese meteorologists say the cur...