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Dear Abby: Son’s PDA with girlfriend makes mom cringe

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

Dear Abby: My son is dating a girl I can’t stand. I’m not too crazy about my son right now, either. I no longer want to be out in public with them because their public displays of affection are so over the top it makes me ill. I cannot imagine spending every holiday, birthday or whatever with them for the rest of my life. He hasn’t told us anything about this person. We don’t even know her last name. Help! — Turned-Off Mom in IndianaDear Mom: You didn’t mention your son’s age or how long he has been involved with this young woman. It appears they are both quite young. Romances that burn with this kind of intensity usually cool down fairly quickly. In the meantime, be patient. Say nothing that will cause you to be perceived as the “enemy.”If you would like more information about the girl, ask her in a non-threatening way. (“Are you a schoolmate?” “Do you have a last name?” “Does your family live in to...

Judge sends mom accused of DUI in deaths of kids on SR-78 back to jail

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- A teary Sandra Ortiz was sent back to jail Friday afternoon.The 33-year-old pleaded not guilty to charges of driving under the influence, gross vehicular manslaughter and child endangerment. Ortiz was released from custody last month with specific terms to follow. On Friday, prosecutors said she violated three of those conditions by drinking alcohol, leaving San Diego County and not charging her monitor, leaving the battery to die without her being monitored."Now it’s concerning that the defendant has violated 3 of her SOR conditions in matter of 2 to three weeks," said Deputy District Attorney Stephanie De Jesus. Fatal crash prompts road closures along I-805, SR-52 connector Ortiz was taken into custody and her bail was set at $100,000. She can be transferred to an alcohol treatment facility once a bed becomes available. On Father’s Day, Ortiz was driving her six children to a park in San Marcos, when luggage fell off their car. According to authorities, she pulled o...

B.C. port workers vote to reject mediated agreement

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

Port workers in British Columbia have voted to reject a mediated contract offer, extending job action that prevented billions in goods from moving for almost two weeks earlier this month.In a letter posted on the union’s website, International Longshore and Warehouse Union Canada President Rob Ashton says workers are now calling on their employers to “come to the table” and negotiate directly, instead of doing so through the BC Maritime Employers Association.The rejection raises the prospect of back-to-work legislation to end the uncertainty at more than 30 port terminals and other sites, including Canada’s largest port in Vancouver.The four-year agreement between the union and maritime employers went to a vote of about 7,400 workers on Thursday and Friday, after union leaders presented the deal to local chapters on Tuesday.The deal worked out with federal mediators had put a temporary halt to a 13-day strike that had commenced July 1, but its fate see-sawed ...

‘God willing, we will meet again in Libya.’ A migrant family’s tale shows chaos at Tunisian border

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

When Mbengue Nyimbilo Crepin regained consciousness after collapsing in the desert, the sun had already set. Tunisian authorities had violently forced him, his wife and their 6-year-old daughter across the border to Libya by foot without water, in the blazing heat, he said. Nyimbilo crumpled to the ground, exhausted and dehydrated, but urged his wife to carry on with little Marie and catch up to dozens of other migrants ahead.“God willing, we will meet again in Libya,” he told them. Nyimbilo eventually made it there — only to find out days later that his wife and daughter almost certainly did not. A graphic photo widely shared on social media shows the lifeless body of a Black woman with braided hair next to a little girl, their faces down in the sand. The child is curled up next to the woman, her bare feet red and swollen, likely from walking on blistering hot sand. Nyimbilo said he immediately recognized his wife’s yellow dress, pulled up on her body, and his daughter’...

A timeline of events surrounding strike action at B.C.’s ports

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

The union representing about 7,400 port workers in British Columbia has announced that its members have voted to reject a mediated contract with employers, in a move that prolongs uncertainty surrounding the province’s ports.Here is a timeline surrounding the events.2022Nov. 30: The British Columbia Maritime Employers Association provides notice to commence collective bargaining to the International Longshore and Warehouse Union Canada.2023Feb. 16: Negotiations begin.March 20: The ILWU serves a notice of dispute to the federal government, signalling an impasse, and requests the appointment of a conciliation officer.March 29: Talks enter a 60-day conciliation period.March 31: The existing collective agreement between the BCMEA and the ILWU expires.May 30: Conciliation ends. Talks enter a cooling-off period of 21 days.June 5: The ILWU’s negotiating committee authorizes a strike vote to be conducted on June 9 and 10.June 12: The ILWU says members voted 99.24 per cent in fav...

Water is refreshing in the heat, right? In parts of Florida this past week, not so much

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

In the sweltering summer heat, nobody tries to cool off by jumping into a hot tub. In parts of Florida, however, that’s what the ocean has felt like.Earlier this week, sea surface temperatures reached as high as 101.2 degrees Fahrenheit (38.4 degrees Celsius) around the state’s southern tip in Manatee Bay, according to the National Weather Service — although scientists said the context for Monday’s reading is complicated.“It was like there was no difference between humidity of the air and going into the water,” said Chelsea Ward of Fort Myers, Florida. Triple-digit ocean temperatures are stunning even in Florida, where residents are used to the heat and where many retirees find refuge from cold, northern winters. Several other nearby spots reached the mid-90s (about 35 Celsius). A storm finally came through on Wednesday, helping water temperatures drop back down in to the more temperate 80s (about 29 Celsius).Humans naturally look to water for a chance to refresh. Every summer, mill...

No winning ticket sold for Friday’s $28 million Lotto Max jackpot

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

There was no winning ticket sold in Friday’s Lotto Max $28 million draw.The jackpot for the next draw on Aug. 1 will be an estimated $33 million.The Canadian Press

B.C. port workers vote to reject mediated agreement: union

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

The union representing B.C. port workers says its membership has voted to reject a mediated contract offer it reached with the BC Maritime Employers Association (BCMEA) last week.In a statement Friday, the ILWU Canada Longshore Division says union members said “NO to the Terms of The Settlement.”“Today we call on our direct employers to come to the table and negotiate something that works for our members and the industry,” the statement continued.The union announced last week that it was recommending the terms of the tentative deal to its membership.Unionized workers took off the day shift this past Tuesday to learn the details of the agreement, before voting was held over two days later in the week.The BCMEA earlier said the offer that was being presented was the same one leaders of the ILWU had previously rejected, which briefly sent workers back to the picket line last week.Related articles: B.C. port union to recommend settlement agreement to its membersI...

French President Macron visits his counterpart in Sri Lanka

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

COLOMBO, Sri Lanka (AP) — French President Emmanuel Macron held discussions with his Sri Lankan counterpart Saturday on an open and inclusive Indo-Pacific region in the first-ever visit by a French leader to the Indian Ocean island nation. As the fourth-largest creditor to Sri Lanka, France had pledged cooperation in debt restructuring to help the island nation recover from its economic crisis.Macron arrived in Sri Lanka Friday night, following his trip to the South Pacific region, to mark the 75th anniversary of diplomatic relations between the two nations, Sri Lanka’s president’s office said.Sri Lanka President Ranil Wickremesinghe praised France’s significant role in global affairs, particularly in areas such as climate mitigation, global debt restructuring, and matters related to the Indo-Pacific region, the statement said.“Sri Lanka and France are two Indian Ocean nations that share the same goal: an open, inclusive and prosperous Indo-Pacific. In Colombo we confirm...

Fresh charges tie Trump even more closely to coverup effort. That could deepen his legal woes

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 19:18:44 GMT

WASHINGTON (AP) — It’s a stunning new allegation in an already serious case: Former President Donald Trump sought to delete Mar-a-Lago surveillance footage to obstruct the Justice Department’s investigation into his handling of classified documents.The latest criminal charges unsealed Thursday deepen Trump’s legal jeopardy, alleging a more central role for the former president than previously known in a cover-up that prosecutors say was meant to prevent them from recovering top-secret documents he took with him after he left the White House. Coming as Trump braces for possible additional indictments related to efforts to overturn the 2020 election, the new allegations strengthen special counsel Jack Smith’s already powerful case against Trump while undercutting potential defenses floated by the former president, experts say.“Before these new charges, you could maybe try some sort of defense that ‘this was all a mistake, it was my staff’ or confusion about what documents he actually ...